Fix crash when filtering items in Picker (#37929)

Closes #37617

We're already using `get` in a bunch of places, this PR updates the
remaining spots to follow the same pattern. Note that the `ix` we read
in `render_match` can sometimes be stale.

The likely reason is that we run the match-update logic asynchronously
(see
[here](https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/blob/138117e0b15664079f5526cb56168750382b49b9/crates/picker/src/picker.rs#L643)).
That means it's possible to render items after the list's [data
update](https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/blob/138117e0b15664079f5526cb56168750382b49b9/crates/picker/src/picker.rs#L652)
but before the [list
reset](https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/blob/138117e0b15664079f5526cb56168750382b49b9/crates/picker/src/picker.rs#L662),
in which case the `ix` can be greater than that of our updated data.

Release Notes:

- Fixed crash when filtering MCP tools.

crates/collab_ui/src/collab_panel/contact_finder.rs

@@ -148,7 +148,7 @@ impl PickerDelegate for ContactFinderDelegate {
         _: &mut Window,
         cx: &mut Context<Picker<Self>>,
     ) -> Option<Self::ListItem> {
-        let user = &self.potential_contacts[ix];
+        let user = &self.potential_contacts.get(ix)?;
         let request_status = self.user_store.read(cx).contact_request_status(user);
 
         let icon_path = match request_status {