Dynamically link libwayland (#13241)

Fixes a bug in current nightly.

Release Notes:

- N/A

Cargo.lock

@@ -12371,6 +12371,7 @@ checksum = "15a0c8eaff5216d07f226cb7a549159267f3467b289d9a2e52fd3ef5aae2b7af"
 dependencies = [
  "dlib",
  "log",
+ "once_cell",
  "pkg-config",
 ]
 

crates/gpui/Cargo.toml

@@ -110,7 +110,7 @@ as-raw-xcb-connection = "1"
 ashpd.workspace = true
 calloop = "0.13.0"
 calloop-wayland-source = "0.3.0"
-wayland-backend = { version = "0.3.3", features = ["client_system"] }
+wayland-backend = { version = "0.3.3", features = ["client_system", "dlopen"] }
 wayland-client = { version = "0.31.2" }
 wayland-cursor = "0.31.1"
 wayland-protocols = { version = "0.31.2", features = [