Update runtimed to fix compatibility issue with the Ark kernel (#40889)

Closes #40888

This updates runtimed to the latest version, which handles the
"starting" variant of `execution_state`. It actually handles a bunch of
other variants that are not documented in the protocol (see
https://jupyter-client.readthedocs.io/en/stable/messaging.html#kernel-status),
like "starting", "terminating", etc. I added implementations for these
variants as well.

Release Notes:

- Fixed issue that prevented the Ark kernel from working in Zed
(#40888).

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Co-authored-by: Conrad Irwin <conrad.irwin@gmail.com>

crates/repl/src/kernels/mod.rs

@@ -213,6 +213,13 @@ impl From<&Kernel> for KernelStatus {
             Kernel::RunningKernel(kernel) => match kernel.execution_state() {
                 ExecutionState::Idle => KernelStatus::Idle,
                 ExecutionState::Busy => KernelStatus::Busy,
+                ExecutionState::Unknown => KernelStatus::Error,
+                ExecutionState::Starting => KernelStatus::Starting,
+                ExecutionState::Restarting => KernelStatus::Restarting,
+                ExecutionState::Terminating => KernelStatus::ShuttingDown,
+                ExecutionState::AutoRestarting => KernelStatus::Restarting,
+                ExecutionState::Dead => KernelStatus::Error,
+                ExecutionState::Other(_) => KernelStatus::Error,
             },
             Kernel::StartingKernel(_) => KernelStatus::Starting,
             Kernel::ErroredLaunch(_) => KernelStatus::Error,