Add remote server cross compilation (#19136)

This will allow us to compile debug builds of the remote-server for a
different architecture than the one we are developing on.

This also adds a CI step for building our remote server with minimal
dependencies.

Release Notes:

- N/A

crates/auto_update/src/auto_update.rs

@@ -464,6 +464,7 @@ impl AutoUpdater {
         smol::fs::create_dir_all(&platform_dir).await.ok();
 
         let client = this.read_with(cx, |this, _| this.http_client.clone())?;
+
         if smol::fs::metadata(&version_path).await.is_err() {
             log::info!("downloading zed-remote-server {os} {arch}");
             download_remote_server_binary(&version_path, release, client, cx).await?;