Use ShellKind::try_quote whenever we need to quote shell args (#41104)

Re-reverts
https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/commit/8f4646d6c357409cfc286104088b4d21f2bea851
with fixes

Release Notes:

- N/A

Cargo.lock

@@ -4532,7 +4532,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "paths",
  "serde",
  "serde_json",
- "shlex",
  "smol",
  "task",
  "util",
@@ -4758,7 +4757,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "serde_json",
  "serde_json_lenient",
  "settings",
- "shlex",
  "sysinfo 0.37.2",
  "task",
  "tasks_ui",
@@ -12926,7 +12924,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "settings",
  "sha2",
  "shellexpand 2.1.2",
- "shlex",
  "smallvec",
  "smol",
  "snippet",
@@ -13839,7 +13836,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "serde",
  "serde_json",
  "settings",
- "shlex",
  "smol",
  "tempfile",
  "thiserror 2.0.17",