Extract a BufferStore object from Project (#14037)

This is a ~small~ pure refactor that's a step toward SSH remoting. I've
extracted the Project's buffer state management into a smaller, separate
struct called `BufferStore`, currently in the same crate. I did this as
a separate PR to reduce conflicts between main and `remoting-over-ssh`.

The idea is to make use of this struct (and other smaller structs that
make up `Project`) in a dedicated, simpler `HeadlessProject` type that
we will use in the SSH server to model the remote end of a project. With
this approach, as we develop the headless project, we can avoid adding
more conditional logic to `Project` itself (which is already very
complex), and actually make `Project` a bit smaller by extracting out
helper objects.

Release Notes:

- N/A

Cargo.lock

@@ -8199,6 +8199,7 @@ version = "0.1.0"
 dependencies = [
  "anyhow",
  "collections",
+ "futures 0.3.28",
  "prost",
  "prost-build",
  "serde",