Move the pure-header utilities shared by app/ and engine/ out of
engine/common/ into a new shared/include/oakutil/ layer (define, lerp,
decibel, digit, range, crashpadutils, autoscroll, qtutils, filefunctions
declarations, and a trimmed xmlutils exposing a CancelAtom-free void*
overload). engine/common/ keeps forwarding headers so internal include
paths are unchanged; app/ now includes oakutil/* directly.
engine/node/project.h gains an explicit NodeGroup forward declaration
previously obtained transitively through the old xmlutils.h.