Move the pure-header utilities shared by app/ and engine/ out of
engine/common/ into a new shared/include/oakutil/ layer (define, lerp,
decibel, digit, range, crashpadutils, autoscroll, qtutils, filefunctions
declarations, and a trimmed xmlutils exposing a CancelAtom-free void*
overload). engine/common/ keeps forwarding headers so internal include
paths are unchanged; app/ now includes oakutil/* directly.
engine/node/project.h gains an explicit NodeGroup forward declaration
previously obtained transitively through the old xmlutils.h.
Every app module now reaches liboakengine exclusively through
oakengine_* C calls, EngineEventBridge subscriptions and app-side
handle headers (cliphandle/keyframehandle/nodevaluehandle/oakvaluehelper).
Direct C++ command construction, engine signal connect()s, and engine
type usage in MOC-visible signatures are gone: 557 -> 0 undefined
olive:: symbols in oak-editor.