fix: node graph edge display, teardown crashes, and event/audio lifetime bugs

- capi: oakengine_node_output_connection_at/_at_ex returned the source
  node as the connection destination; the actual destination is
  conn.second.node(). Out-edge enumeration was useless, so the node
  view could only draw in-edges and randomly lost whichever edges
  needed the out-edge path (random per context build order).
  Regression test in oakengine_node_test
- project teardown: Project::clear() pre-notifies node removal while
  nodes are fully constructed (observers used to crash on
  half-destroyed nodes); childEvent suppresses the removal dance while
  clearing; Node::disconnect_all/disconnect_edge get a silent mode for
  teardown so no invalidation/events touch dying members
  (is_being_cleared); ClipBlock marker disconnect guarded against
  dead viewer/markers; ProjectCopier and PreviewAutoCacher drop
  project references on Project::destroyed instead of disconnecting
  dead objects at shutdown
- preview: add oakengine_preview_request_get_audio_sample_count; the
  viewer queried sample count by passing nullptr to get_audio_samples
  which rejects it, so all playback audio was silently dropped
- app: fix unterminated input-id memcpy in ResolveGroupInput
  (nodeparamviewitem, widgetbridge) that corrupted every parameter id
- app: unsubscribe raw C-API event subscriptions in destructors of
  NodeParamViewKeyframeControl, NodeParamViewConnectedLabel and
  ExportDialog; playhead events used to fire into dead widgets
  (crash when dragging the playhead)
- tests: preview request roundtrip (video frame + audio range) and
  free-while-active teardown coverage; env-gated OAK_DEBUG_EDGES /
  OAK_DEBUG_INVALID_INPUT diagnostics
- docs: investigation notes in docs/zh/

engine/render/projectcopier.cpp

@@ -63,6 +63,11 @@ void ProjectCopier::set_project(Project *project)
 	original_ = project;
 
 	if (original_) {
+		// Don't keep a dangling pointer if the project dies while we're
+		// still around (e.g. RenderManager outlives the project at shutdown)
+		connect(original_, &Project::destroyed, this,
+				[this]() { original_ = nullptr; });
+
 		// The copied project is only used as an in-memory render proxy. Mark it so
 		// downstream code (e.g. RenderWorkerPool) knows it is safe to reset its
 		// modified flag after serializing a snapshot.