fix: node graph edge display, teardown crashes, and event/audio lifetime bugs

- capi: oakengine_node_output_connection_at/_at_ex returned the source
  node as the connection destination; the actual destination is
  conn.second.node(). Out-edge enumeration was useless, so the node
  view could only draw in-edges and randomly lost whichever edges
  needed the out-edge path (random per context build order).
  Regression test in oakengine_node_test
- project teardown: Project::clear() pre-notifies node removal while
  nodes are fully constructed (observers used to crash on
  half-destroyed nodes); childEvent suppresses the removal dance while
  clearing; Node::disconnect_all/disconnect_edge get a silent mode for
  teardown so no invalidation/events touch dying members
  (is_being_cleared); ClipBlock marker disconnect guarded against
  dead viewer/markers; ProjectCopier and PreviewAutoCacher drop
  project references on Project::destroyed instead of disconnecting
  dead objects at shutdown
- preview: add oakengine_preview_request_get_audio_sample_count; the
  viewer queried sample count by passing nullptr to get_audio_samples
  which rejects it, so all playback audio was silently dropped
- app: fix unterminated input-id memcpy in ResolveGroupInput
  (nodeparamviewitem, widgetbridge) that corrupted every parameter id
- app: unsubscribe raw C-API event subscriptions in destructors of
  NodeParamViewKeyframeControl, NodeParamViewConnectedLabel and
  ExportDialog; playhead events used to fire into dead widgets
  (crash when dragging the playhead)
- tests: preview request roundtrip (video frame + audio range) and
  free-while-active teardown coverage; env-gated OAK_DEBUG_EDGES /
  OAK_DEBUG_INVALID_INPUT diagnostics
- docs: investigation notes in docs/zh/

engine/node/node.h

@@ -417,7 +417,8 @@ public:
 
 	static void connect_edge(Node *output, const NodeInput &input);
 
-	static void disconnect_edge(Node *output, const NodeInput &input);
+	static void disconnect_edge(Node *output, const NodeInput &input,
+								bool silent = false);
 
 	void copy_cache_uuids_from(Node *n);